Etiquette

A few pointers to maximize our fun and pleasure.

IMG_3134bPlease arrive for your session on time. If you’re running late, please send me a text or call to let me know. If you need to cancel, please give me at least 24 hours notice. I would appreciate if you did not arrive more than 5 minutes before our scheduled time. I use the time before our session to prepare myself and my space, for the activities we’ve planned. If this time is cut short, I won’t be at my best. If you arrive in the area early, there are a variety of restaurants and parks in the vicinity where you can relax until our scheduled time.

Cleanliness and hygiene are important. Please shower and brush your teeth before our session, and make sure you’ve attended carefully to your personal hygiene. If you’re coming straight from work you’re welcome to shower when you arrive, and I have mouthwash and other hygiene products available for your use. Just ask.

If you are high, drunk or otherwise unable to communicate and consent, I will not play with you, for your safety and mine. While there’s nothing wrong with having a drink or two to lower inhibitions, please make sure you have your wits about you for our session.

Please have your pre-counted fee ready when you arrive and hand it to me at the beginning of our session, preferably in an unsealed envelope. I would prefer that you not make me ask.

Communication and courtesy are key to having an excellent experience together. Although I am dominant, until we have negotiated how our power exchange dynamic will play out, I will interact with you as an equal. Until we have negotiated an agreement, it is not appropriate to speak to me as though you are already my submissive.

While we are negotiating, I expect you to clearly communicate your desires and limits. While I am excellent at reading body language and non-verbal cues, I’m not a mind reader, and everyone’s desires are different. This includes considerations like headspace, pain tolerance, physical limitations and aftercare needs. If you’re not sure what you want or need, that’s okay, but if that’s the case, communicating with me throughout our session will be very important.

I expect you to behave politely and respectfully during our session. Deliberately bad behaviour, such as being rude, disobedient, bratty or rebellious will put an end to our session. If there is something you desire, ask, politely.

Please do not wear heavy scents (colognes, aftershave, deodorant) to your session. I have a mild allergy to some fragrances.