What drives your financial submission?
What is your findom fantasy? What pushes your buttons?
As with all power exchange, it's essential that I understand what motivates you. There are so many different ways to do D/s. These are just a few options:
Support & Service
You get a deep sense of satisfaction from caring for and supporting others. You're a giving person and the appreciation of your domme is more rewarding than anything you could buy for yourself with that money.
Power & Control
For you this is all about relinquishing control and power. The feeling of being restricted and controlled, knowing that you can earn my praise and rewards or my disappointment and punishment through your choices thrills you.
You're a paypig, cash cow or human ATM. You know that the only thing you're good for is giving up your money to a superior goddess.
You relish knowing that I'll be spending your hard earned cash on luxuries and dates with other men while you sit alone, just as you deserve.
There are so many different ways to give me your money, enrich my lifestyle, and earn my gratitude. If it's not listed here, just ask. I appreciate creativity.
I love to share photos, praise, and excitement on Twitter.
Subtle or overt. Meet me in a public place to hand over your cash.
Withdraw money at an ATM under my patient eye and watch me count it before pocketing it.
Meet me in a cafe and slip me an envelope.
5-15 minutes, $150 minimum tribute.
Visit my gifts page to see my wishlist. There's something there for every budget, and a number of options to order online and have them sent directly to me.
For in person gift delivery without social or play time, please spend a minimum of $150.
I love going shopping and spending your money, on lingerie, clothes, decadent food, and fun things for my kitchen and hobbies.
You take my shopping bags while I pick out what I most desire.
Minimum $100/hour spending, plus my social rate.
Adopt a Bill or Reimburse
Commit to paying my bills on an on-going basis. This is a limited selection - if there's a particular type of expense or amount that appeals to you let me know.
- Phone: $150/month
- Hair: $150/six weeks
- Internet: $96/month
- Netflix: $14/month
Or reimburse me for my daily expenses, from grocery shopping to coffee to online purchases.
Less commitment than adopting a bill. Contact me to request an expense or watch my Twitter.
Send me an online tribute, knowing that I'm going to spend it well. I'll tell everyone on Twitter just how I'm enjoying your money, send you exclusive photos, and tempt you to send more.
- Etransfer to firstname.lastname@example.org
Games & Challenges
A fun way to put your money on the line.
We can play a re-tweet game for an hour while you watch the likes, comments and re-tweets rack up.
Let me set up a challenge to your self-control or physical ability. See how long you can go without masturbating and pay a fine for every day you fall short of my challenge. Or jerk off within a set amount of time and pay a penalty for every additional minute it takes you to come.
There's endless variations we can play with. Do you want a quick pay off or to draw it out?
We will work together to develop a budget and spending restrictions for you, and a plan for me to monitor and keep you accountable, whether that's you sending me updates or giving me full access to your financials.
This is an excellent way to live your submission everyday and be disciplined about your spending.
Use the money you save to put towards your goals, or make it a sacrifice to increase your tribute to me.
Initial consultation and planning start at $350.
On going domination and management starts $200 per month for check-ins by email or text.
Limits & Negotiation
As with all domination, understanding our respective limits and boundaries is essential.
While it can and should take time to build trust, the more information you are comfortable sharing about your budget or financial situation, the better I will understand how to play with you, particularly if you're into discomfort and pushing limits.
I will delight in making you very, very uncomfortable if that's what you're into, but I don't engage in home wrecking fantasies and do not participate in financial domination that involves non-consenting parties, such as partners or children. I don't want your kid's college fund or your family's grocery money, and I won't insult your wife.
We can play with the fantasy of financial ruin, but I'm not interested in creating a harmful level of financial hardship for you.
For us to be able to fully explore the edges and extremes of financial domination you must be able to step out of your fantasy and talk to me as an equal.
Tributes and gifts are just that. They are not payment for services, however if you make it worth my while I will take very good care of you.
Findom is Femdom
I view findom as a very special subset of femdom.
While some finsubs are exclusively interested in financial domination, for many it is just one aspect of D/s that is best enjoyed with other activities. Findom can be your primary kink, or a way to take femdom to the next level.
If you crave a more holistic experience of submission or have kinks that extend outside of financial domination, visit my Femdom page to learn more about what it looks like to submit.
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Give in to the ultimate domination.