Frequently Asked Questions
I'm happy to see clients of any gender, as well as couples. Whether you are a beginner just looking for a first kinky experience or an well seasoned bottom/sub, I can create an experience that is sure to meet your desires.
I welcome clients of all races and ethnicities.
Absolutely! If you have any specific needs or are concerned about accessibility, please let me know when you contact me. It's best to do this well in advance, so that I can ensure my in-call location will meet your needs.
My usual Winnipeg in-call location has street parking out front, multiple nearby paid lots, and a couple of accessible street parking spaces for permit holders. There are ramps and elevators in the building.
Inside my in-call there is ample space around furniture to accommodate most power chairs, however the bathroom is small and lacks grab-bars. There is a standard bath tub/shower combination.
If you have accessibility needs that I cannot meet at my regular in-call space, I am happy to arrange an alternative, more accessible in-call space.
If you require an attendant, you are welcome to bring them to you session with advance notice. If you anticipate needing additional time to get undressed, positioned, or for clean up, please let me know, so that I can ensure that adequate additional time is available before and after our session.
Please get in touch if you have any questions about accessibility.
My Winnipeg in-call location is downtown in an upscale high rise.
Exact location details will be provided to clients by phone the day of their booking.
Please ask me for a near by intersection if you need additional time to plan your travel.
There are several options for parking.
Street parking is usually available in front of and around my in-call. Monday - Saturday, 2 hour limit, $3.50/hour 8am - 5:30pm. Sundays and evenings unlimited free parking.
Within one block there are multiple paid lots. To the south east you will find a $2/hour lot with ample spaces.
No, my rates are fixed. Please don't try to bargain with me. If my rates don't work for you, please see another service provider.
Discounts are available to clients who pre-pay in full. Please refer to my rates page.
I will offer a trade for professional services in a very small number of circumstances. References, portfolio, and/or professional certification required.
Unless you've indicated a specific clothing fetish (latex, shoes, stockings etc) I will dress however I desire that day - which may be lingerie, casual clothing, or naked.
If we are going out for dinner or public play, I will dress appropriately to the situation - I can be casual and inconspicuous or turn heads, but I generally aim for an elegant mix of sexy and conservative.
During our initial contact, please address me as Regent.
Once we have an agreement for power exchange, you may call me Regent, Mistress or Sir. Other titles may be negotiated.
Under no circumstances should you address me as baby, honey, sweetie or other pet names.
Your time begins when you walk through the door or at our scheduled time, which ever is earlier. Please arrive at the time you are schedule, and definitely no more than five minutes early.
I use the time before our session to prepare. If you arrive more than five minutes early I will likely not answer the door buzzer at all.
Every session is different and tailored to the individual, but here is a detailed overview of the common parts:
Please come into the building and buzz. It can take a few seconds for the buzzer to start ringing. Please wait to be buzzed in, even if there are people leaving or entering the building and willing to let you in. Take the elevator up to my floor immediately after entering the building.
When you arrive I will greet you and take your coat. If you have not pre-paid, please hand me the fee in an unsealed envelope at this time.
Showers are mandatory for all clients, even if you showered right before heading over. At minimum please thoroughly wash your armpits, feet and between your legs. Please also make use of the mouthwash. All toiletries in the bathroom are there for your use.
When you're finished showering, please come out of the bathroom nude or in your towel, unless we have negotiated a scene that begins with you clothed. There is a valet stand directly outside the bathroom on which you can hang your clothing and place personal items like your phone and keys.
I am a low protocol domme. Generally, I'll have you sit or stand, and we will will talk a bit to check in about limits, desires or just to get to know each other and relax.
The main part of the session is entirely dependent on what we have negotiated - every session looks different and involves careful pacing. I will be mindful of your limits, and check in as the scene progresses.
As we approach the end of our session I will build to a finish, which may or may not include an orgasm, 5-15 minutes before our time is up, ensuring that there is time for aftercare (if needed) and another shower for you. The details of aftercare are dependent on your needs and preferences.
When our time is up I will show you to the door. Please take the elevator down and exit the building without lingering in the lobby or by the entrance, unless you are waiting for a cab.
If we've had a particularly intense scene I may email or text you later to check in on how you're doing.
Headspace is about how you want to feel during our session and what kind of interpersonal dynamic you want between us. Often when we talk about BDSM, we focus on specific activities (eg, I want to be spanked, I want strap-on play), but have uncommunicated desires or expectations around the headspace we want.
Do you want me to be cold and mean? To verbally humiliate you and treat you like an object? Do you want me to be warm and sensuous? To tell you what a good sub you are and how much you please me? Do you want to have a fun, playful session, where we have friendly conversation while we play?
These are just a few examples that would create very different experiences even if we were doing the same activity, so this is why it's important for me to ask about headspace.
I won't play without a way to get your on-going consent. Please visit my Safety page for more information on how and why I use safewords as part of communicating in scene.
There is always a chance that we may have met before or have social connections in common. Winnipeg is the one-degree of separation city. I understand and value your need for discretion and I hope that you also value mine.
I wear many different hats in my personal and professional lives and I am excellent at knowing and maintaining good boundaries. This includes being extremely respectful of people's privacy. My clients include celebrities and public figures.
If I know you from another setting I will mention it to you when we meet for our session, but I will never reference our professional relationship outside of our session and private communication. If I see you out in public I will not approach or interact with you unless it would be appropriate to that setting.
You may recognize me even if I have never met you. I have worked in a variety of professional fields and have appeared in the media several times over the last few years for reasons unrelated to being a service provider. If you recognize me or realize that you know personal identifying information about me, please respect my privacy and my choice to keep this part of my life separate from the other parts.
If you don't normally remove your body hair and being shaved isn't a particular turn on for you, then please don't shave on my behalf. I like body hair on my partners and my personal preference would be for neatly trimmed. In addition, if your skin is not used to you removing body hair, doing so can be very irritating and itchy for you.
I do have a strong preference for no stubble.
I prioritize seeing clients who provide screening information in their inquiry. This demonstrates to me that you respect my time and safety. I accept the following screening methods, though I am open to others.
- A reference from two other service providers. Include a link to their websites or ads, and ensure that they have agreed to provide you with a reference beforehand.
- A close-up photo of your photo ID and a photo of you holding it next to your face.
- Your full name, place of business and work phone number or email. (
- $50 deposit to reserve an appointment time, by Interac Email Money Transfer.
Your screening information will be used only to verify that you are who you say you are, to help ensure my safety. An unfortunate reality is that there are many men out there who wish to harm sex workers, and providing me with information supports establishing trust. I will be inviting you into my intimate, personal space, and so establishing a sense of trust and security is essential.
I understand that privacy is of the utmost importance in this business, and my business relies on my ability to be discreet. Your personal information will not be shared with anyone - it is for my own use only.
If you decline to be screened then I may decline to see you, at my discretion. Screened clients will always receive priority in my schedule.
As an alternative, you may also book a Social Outing in a public space for us to meet and get to know each other first.
I obscure my face for a variety of reasons. I value my privacy and discretion, and prefer that only those who have completed my screening and made a commitment to see me are able to identify me. I also value my clients' need for discretion, particularly if we are out in public together. Not showing my face online reduces the chances that they might recognize me and realize that you're out with a professional.
Finally, I enjoy having the freedom to travel internationally, particularly to our nearest international neighbour. Unfortunately, many professional companions have been stopped and turned away at the border, and showing my face increases the risk of this happening.
For all of these reasons, I also do not offer photos of my face to potential clients. I hope that the photos and descriptions I do provide offer enough information to make you confident in your choice. If you're still unsure, I recommend booking a 15 minute meet 'n' greet before committing to a full session.