Topping Philosophy

Not everyone is submissive! If you have a fantasy or experience you want fulfilled or a kink you want to explore, perhaps what you need is a top and not a domme.

From the outside this might look no different from domination - the actual activities might be the same (or not). This is all about interpersonal dynamics and the difference is in the energy we create between us when we're playing.

As a top my role is to guide and facilitate your experience. We'll approach your desires as equals, without power exchange. I'm not here to tell you what to do - this is about you and what you want.

I want to understand your desires, moments and vignettes that you can't stop thinking about in bed or in the shower. The nuances of your fantasy that push your buttons and make you quiver.

I'm big on safety and negotiation. I want you to have fun, have an experience, and feel great doing it.

Learn more about me

Topping Philosophy

Not everyone is submissive! If you have a fantasy or experience you want fulfilled or a kink you want to explore, perhaps what you need is a top and not a domme.

As a top my role is to guide and facilitate your experience. We'll approach your desires as equals, without power exchange. I'm not here to tell you what to do - this is about you and what you want.

I want to understand your desires, moments and vignettes that you can't stop thinking about in bed or in the shower. The nuances of your fantasy that push your buttons and make you quiver.

I'm big on safety and negotiation. I want you to have fun, have an experience, and feel great doing it.

Learn more about me

Kinks, Fetishes, Activities

I have a big toy collection and I'm into many kinks, from spanking to sounding, fisting to foot worship, and so much more.

I also love novelty and am very open to trying new things - I'll rarely pass up an opportunity to discover a new kink!

Tell me what you enjoy and we'll explore it together. I want to understand what does it for you and why, be it simple or complicated.

View a list of kinks & activities

Limits & Negotiation

Our mutual safety and comfort is important to me. I want us to have fun and feel good about it afterwards.

I'm strictly a top - I don't switch or bottom so please don't ask.

I'm invested in providing you with a great experience, and to do so your clear communication before and during our session is essential. If you don't know what you want, that's okay! I love exploring with novices. We can figure it out as we go along, but that makes on-going feedback all the more important.

I'm happy to hurt you (if that's what you want) but I don't engage in activities that intentionally do serious harm or injury.

The more tops the better

I love to co-top with my friends! We know each other well, communicate intuitively, and have a lot of genuine fun together. We're not just co-workers, we're friends.

There's just some things that you need more than two hands (or feet, or strap-ons) for, so why not book a duo or group play and be the centre of attention. Bottoming for us is like being at the sexiest, kinkiest party ever, and you're the guest of honour.