Femdom Philosophy
As a professional and lifestyle dominant, I bring genuine passion and pleasure to every scene. Dominance and submission are dynamics that are integral to the way I interact, and the better we get to know each other, the deeper into submission I can take you.
I enjoy playing with a wide variety of different dynamics, and each relationship between dominant and submissive is unique. My dominance is always authentic, but looks different with each sub.
Femdom is more than an aesthetic, more than a series of activities. Whether I'm spanking you, making you clean my toilet, or having dinner with you, the specific activities we do are secondary to the the psychological experience of submission. The activities we negotiate are chosen to serve the development of the dynamic.
I am at my core a nurturing domme. I take power exchange very seriously and the health and well being, both mental and physical, of my subs is my top priority. I see femdom as an ideal space in which to grow, and an opportunity for both dominant and submissive to better understand themselves and each other. I believe that when we part ways we should each be better than we were when we met.
What do you want to experience?
I start by asking about tone and headspace. Each of these dynamics creates a completely different experience, and elements from different dynamics can be combined to create a unique D/s relationship between us.
Sensual
Sensual and seductive. Pleasure is front and centre, with lots of stimulating touch, teasing and intimacy.
This domination is sexual and tactile, encouraging you to surrender to your desires and surrender to me.
Warm
Sweet, nurturing, and gentle, like being in your favourite safe place. An opportunity to relax and feel cared for by surrendering all your power, and just being present.
Some may think of it as maternal.
Playful
You are my toy and I'm going to play with you. This domination is fun, full of teasing, talking, and (my) laughter. Low on formality and high on straightforward conversation.
I relish drawing out your reactions to stimuli, whether painful or pleasurable.
Mean
This is going to sting a little - be it your ass or your ego. You can expect snappy banter, a touch of snark, and physical challenges and surprises.
Prepare to be pushed - I'm not going to take it easy on you.
Humiliating
You savour the flush of embarrassment and shame as it washes over you.
Verbal mocking and name calling, being forced to do things, or having things done to you makes you feel objectified and foolish.
Prepare to be made comfortably uncomfortable.
Cold
I am stern and chilly. You are unworthy and lucky to be in my presence.
There is no warmth or sensuality - you will submit and be grateful to even be treated like an object by me. I have no patience for disobedience.
Kinks & Activities
I enjoy and am proficient in a wide variety of kink activities, and well equipped with the necessary gear.
While there are many things I enjoy doing, my main motivator is your reaction. If it works for you, if it makes you squirm, moan, or shudder, it works for me. I want to know what pushes your buttons, what makes you delightfully uncomfortable, what pushes your limits, and what makes you relax and let go.
Tell me what you're into. What piques your curiosity or consumes your fantasies. What you've tried, and loved. Tried and hated. Tried and felt indifferent to. Tell me your hard limits and where the edges of your comfort zone are.
Limits & Negotiation
Just like you, I have limits and expectations in place for my comfort and safety.
I do not engage in any domination or dirty talk during the booking process. Only after we have negotiated and come to an agreement can I be your domme. Domination and submission are contingent on consent, and consent requires communication.
In order to effectively negotiate a scene or D/s relationship, you must be able to step out of your fantasy and talk to me as an equal.
I also expect you to understand the difference between fantasy and reality. While I'm skilled at realizing fantasies, please recognize that there are limitations to physics and biology, and set your expectations for what is possible accordingly.
There are also limits to what is possible before a domme and sub get to know each other. For deep submission, serious edge play and psychological intimacy, patience in developing a relationship will be very well rewarded.
Submit more
There's nothing I love more than sharing a willing sub with my amazing friends. We're more than just colleagues, we are long time friends with deep, intimate relationships that shine through in how we interact together in the dungeon and how intuitively we communicate and create a group D/s dynamic.
Deeper relationships facilitate more meaningful and complex BDSM, so nothing quite compares to submitting to two or more dommes who know each other so well we can communicate with a glance, whose comfort and affection for each other is authentic and built on years of friendship and sharing subs.
In addition to my closest friends, I have other providers in a variety of cities that I love to play with. Visit my duos page for more delicious options.
Ready to submit?
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